*hugs massive hugs* I read your post. Bright blessings and best wishes -- I hope things work out for you two.
I've been approaching this from a different angle than 'most everyone, I guess. I always knew that I was going to wait a long time before having kids, because I really wasn't sure that I was ready for the lifetime commitment that they involve. I knew the risks of waiting, and I thought it was better to wait until I was ready, rather than rush and make a dreadful mistake. So adoption has been on my cards since I was very young, and I've planned for it, and I'm mostly comfortable with it, aside from the "unknown unknowns". (Thank you, Xavier Roberts? Haha.)
*wry grin* I kinda feel very odd-woman-out, but ... well, that's kinda normal for me, I guess. {: I looked at all the hormones and stuff and went "I'm 38 and you're going to overclock my system and force it to ... no. Just no, my body will hate me for the rest of my life, and I *like* my body and I don't want to do that to it." I guess that's just one of those points where every person is different. (:
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I've been approaching this from a different angle than 'most everyone, I guess. I always knew that I was going to wait a long time before having kids, because I really wasn't sure that I was ready for the lifetime commitment that they involve. I knew the risks of waiting, and I thought it was better to wait until I was ready, rather than rush and make a dreadful mistake. So adoption has been on my cards since I was very young, and I've planned for it, and I'm mostly comfortable with it, aside from the "unknown unknowns". (Thank you, Xavier Roberts? Haha.)
*wry grin* I kinda feel very odd-woman-out, but ... well, that's kinda normal for me, I guess. {: I looked at all the hormones and stuff and went "I'm 38 and you're going to overclock my system and force it to ... no. Just no, my body will hate me for the rest of my life, and I *like* my body and I don't want to do that to it." I guess that's just one of those points where every person is different. (: